Emotions are generated through our whole body and we capture those of the people around us. Like odors, our partner's body gives us feelings which modify our behavior and our physiology in a genetically predetermined manner.

An exchange of affection thus leads to a series of identical reactions from one time to another. Affection is thus automatic which makes us bare ourselves and which pushes us to grasp on to the other to be reassured. Being affectionate leads to two emotional states, one associated with the feeling of baring ourselves and the other of being reassured. Physical abandon causes a feeling of insecurity at first and then, brings us feelings which produce a feeling of great security.

Every component of our body has an emotional reaction which is specific and which makes our partner react differently. Each emotion is memorized genetically in a part of the brain. As for the law of physics describing matter (nothing is created, nothing is destroyed); all emotions experienced are present in us since the moment of our birth. An emotion will appear instantaneously when the feelings which are associated with it come up. For example, a series of emotions arise, always the same, every time that we touch our partner's skin. The sensation of the softness and the heat of their skin reassures us, lowers our blood pressure and the involuntary contraction of our muscles, thus physically relaxing us. From a psychic point of view, these feelings lead us to behave gently and attentively because they make us secrete a hormone which calms us.

The three main components of the body are the bones, muscles and adipose tissues. To the touch, they all feel different, they also bring us various feelings. Since we unavoidably touch all three parts of our partner's body at once, this will make us experience many different emotions simultaneously. In the woman, the adipose tissues are the part of her body which plays a primordial role in an exchange of affection. They are also responsible for her feminine identity.

Her curves, essential to maintaining her physical and psychological health, regulate her hormonal production. On the other hand, the physiology and the psychology of the woman are directly linked to her ability to have children. The woman's body is thus a marvel of nature, her adipose tissues being the cornerstone of the reproduction cycle. They set off menstruation at puberty and are responsible for their regularity. During pregnancy, they are a reserve of energy in the case of hunger and as protection against the cold. They make a hormone necessary for the production of milk (for breast-feeding) and they allow her to continue to nourish her child during many days in case of a forced fast.

It is due to her adipose tissues that the woman has a libido. In fact, a thin woman will feel less inclined to have a sexual relation because the feminine sensibility takes it base from them. Feminine curves, the base of affectionate behavior, are also at the origin of pleasure by emitting and receiving emotions. Feminine curves, unconsciously direct our affectionate behavior towards our partner, making emotional communication possible. They attract us sexually, they make us fall in love with her and they stabilize the relationship of the couple by allowing our partner to reassure her of our faithfulness.

Feminine curves stabilize our metabolism and diminish our stress level. Because they are a source of pleasure, well-being and happiness, we feel an attachment towards our partner. The adipose tissues of a woman play a major role in human beings. In the same way, they perform a social function. The mother-child relation is established by affection which is transmitted from her curves. They form a psychological nest which brings them emotional comfort. Because curves are emotionally securing, they favor cohesion in society. Thus, they incite people to talk and compromise in order to avoid conflicts. By being a source of well being, curves influence people to help each other out and to maintain friendly relations.

Since the adipose tissues of the woman are the center of human life, the survival of the race depends on them. Essential in all stages of life, feminine curves attract men sexually for intercourse, assuring survival of the fetus and the baby during the period of breast-feeding and finally, by the well-being of affection that they bring, they develop social links.

In a loving relation, the woman's curves are protection for her physical and psychological integrity by bringing a message of softness which influences our behavior towards her. Thus, at the sight and touch of her, they make us soft, gentle, affectionate and attentive and they humanize men-women relations. Without them, we would have intercourse without feelings like other animals. They are thus at the origin of love.

Adipose tissues have sexual power because they guide loving intercourse. As much as the man and the woman are under the influence of their effects. But, it is not a form of domination of women over men because this happens spontaneously. We are all helpless when faced with our hormones. Control is given through the hormones that we and our partner secrete, in relation with the feelings produced by their curves. The hormonal system of the woman thus govern loving intercourse.

In conjugal violence, man dominates his partner so that she submits to him and executes his desires. Sexual relations are then sado-masochistic. In this situation, the two partners are destroying themselves. In fact, it is as painful to make someone suffer as it is to undergo abuse ourselves. On the other hand, it is satisfying for ourselves to give pleasure to others. The feeling of making the other happy makes us feel good.

In affection, emotional abandon implies the absence of control over ourselves, the situation and our partner. Behaviors, gestures and thoughts that the two partners have during an exchange of affection give them well-being because they correspond exactly to what is wanted by Mother Nature. Satisfying our partner, is spontaneously answering what her body desires to experience in a moment of pleasure. The word exchange, when we are talking about an exchange of affection, means that our body will draw into our partners body for elements which will lead it to experience a moment of ultimate well-being and the same thing occurs in our partner's body. Physical abandon is not a behavior of submission because it is consciously and unconsciously wanted by the two people. Our body can decide. Thus, we feel indisposed if our body doesn't give consent to physical contact. Our body knows how to react to the emotional effects of the adipose tissues to obtain well-being.

Affection is a bonding link where emotions of each body are perfectly linked to one another to experience a moment of great pleasure. Since curves are an emotional vessel, they are the main source of pleasure that the woman gets from her body and that the man gets from his partner's body. Thus, we capture the pleasurable emotions of her curves and we transmit our emotional response through them. Our build and muscles emit masculine emotions which are exciting for the woman. On the other hand, only curves play the role of an initiator, of a facilitator or an emotional guide in affectionate behavior.

Curves are like an ocean of emotions, our body like a sailboat, pleasure like the wind which makes us sail towards a state of well-being. Since adipose tissues are at the basis of life, they are at the origin of pleasure. The pleasure of affection is a fuel furnishing psychological energy to progress in life. Affection lets the child grow in physical and psychological health, to develop their intelligence and to build up solid social links with those around him. At the adult age, affection lets us obtain an excellent quality of life. Since life is a drug, we are all dependent on the secretion of hormones responsible for pleasure that we get from affection.

The soft consistency of the adipose tissues is emotionally significant. Being associated to a soft part of our partner's body, curves are at the origin of tenderness. They lead us to spontaneously be tender towards our partner. Heat which is released from her body pushes us to unconsciously be very warm towards her. Being tender and warm are two states of mind induced by the emotions produced by the tactile sensation of adipose tissues. A tender gesture, is also a passionate touch.

Tenderness is experienced as much from gestures as from thoughts. A tender thought, is seeing our partner as pretty, soft, fine and marvelous. From this, our partner will appear even more pretty than usual, she will glow with beauty. We will perceive her as the prettiest woman in the world. This thought will make up a state of ecstasy and admiration associated with all importance that our partner has for us. At the moment of an exchange of affection, she is most particularly the prettiest, most intelligent, finest, softest, gentlest person for us. In other words, the thoughts which are inside of us are very valuable for her.

A tender thought is related to mental imagery. This technique, called visualization, is above all used in sports which demand perfection in the movements and body displacement like gymnastics, figure skating and synchronized swimming. Visualization is done in two stages. We start by visualizing in our head, the movements which should be done in such a way as to make the routine successful. This is programming, since we concentrate on it so that the actions will be executed properly once the routine is started. Visualization gives us confidence because we know that we will do the right movements mechanically. Affectionate behavior is a program written into our genetic codes. We don't need to think about it or calculate what moves that we will do. All we have to do is concentrate on valuable thoughts towards our partner so that once we are in contact with her curves again, affectionate gestures will spontaneously start.

During an exchange of affection, positive images concerning our partner will surge spontaneously in our mind. This image continues to use programming to enable us to be automatically tender and gentle. Valorization is thus done spontaneously when we emotionally abandon ourselves to our partner.

A tender gesture is not defined by the way that we move or place our hands on our partners body, but rather by what it gives off as emotions. By tenderness, we transmit emotions of well-being by touching her body. Our body can thus be compared to a container full of kisses and our hands, where they pour out. Our hands, in addition to transmitting emotions, captures those of our partner. They act as emitting and receiving antennas. Like vocal cords are used for verbal communication, we express ourselves emotionally with our hands; and because they have a greater sensitivity than the rest of the body, they can detect a larger variety of feelings with various levels of intensity.

Tenderness is characterized by passion. A passionate gesture contains a very large emotional charge. Like a tender gesture is an outpouring of our emotions towards the body of our partner, it gives him a dose of well-being. From this well-being, she reacts also by tender and emotional gestures towards us, which gives us pleasure. A tender gesture gives off human heat. This is an expression which refers to two aspects, either to the heat that the body gives off or the quality that emotional communication can have: a rude gesture is rather cold while a tender gesture is hot. A cold gesture transmits an emotional message of insecurity and illness, which implies a blocking that prevents us from emotionally delivering to the other while a hot gesture provokes a state of comfort and security for the person who receives it. It is by human warmth that our partner feels that we are emotionally abandoning ourselves and then, by feeling secure, she can also abandon herself. We can thus say that human warmth is responsible for the initiation of affectionate behavior.

Being warm, is communicating emotions to the other with our body. We are warm with all the parts of our body and tender almost entirely with our hands. The source of human heat originates, in the woman, in her curves and in the man, in his muscles. These two parts of the body respectively form the feminine and masculine identity. The woman nourishes herself from the masculine emotions circulating in our muscles and us, from the feminine emotions circulating in her adipose tissues, all this for our respective well-being.

The soft consistency of the adipose tissues gives off emotions of fragility which leads us to be tender. Tenderness is a state of mind associated with the fact of being attentive to our thoughts and gestures. Being attentive signifies taking care of our partner. Through thoughts, we realize their emotional fragility and thus avoid making comments or saying things which will hurt her. We worry about her emotional moods to comfort her, we listen to her and we speak to her with kindness. By our actions, we touch her minutely as if she was made of porcelain, we pay attention to not cause her any harm seeing that she is very precious to us. Delicacy is the best quality of a loving man.

Adipose tissues give the woman a soft silhouette while broad shoulders and muscles give the man an aggressive silhouette. It is under the effect of the growth hormone and testosterone at puberty that we develop this physiognomy. Only by what our body gives off in emotions, an atmosphere of competition and rivalry is created between us. Our body is built to defend ourselves from other men or ferocious animals. The broadness of the shoulders and the muscular mass establish a relation of strength and hierarchy between men. There always exists a level of stress which varies in function of the type of relation that we maintain with the men around us. But this stress disappears in the presence of a woman because her body sends off emotions which relax us and makes us feel secure. Women give us a feeling of well-being that only they can make us experience.

From this state of well-being, we become dependent on a woman. The appeasing effect of her curves exerts spontaneous control over our behavior towards our partner. They make us her slave. The woman uses our strength and aggression so that we defend her and protect her. Thus in affection, our muscular body with its hard and firm consistency gives the woman a feeling of being protected and in safety.

Since we can potentially be a danger to our partner, she must feel that she has control over our behavior. This control is exerted spontaneously by the emotional effect of her curves. The fact of being soft and attentive proves that we are influenced by her body. Thus, this creates an atmosphere of security essential to affectionate behavior. Woman's curves calm and soothe the man in order to prepare him for physical abandon. When the woman neutralizes the fear (masks) and the aggression of her partner, she also can abandon herself emotionally to him.